So what is true, pure, real femininity? The answer to that is something that can never adequately be described by words. It begins in the heart with a gentle and kind spirit. Femininity is very difficult to achieve without being able to see a good example of it lived out in real life. But it is possible. The biggest problem is, there are so few truly feminine women left. Some of the most feminine women that I have ever seen have characteristics such as, an un-explainable strength, and yet they are quick to serve others. Self respect - not in a prideful way, but displayed in such a manner that they know they do not have to show off their bodies to gain attention or value. Women like these are not just born, they work to become the way that they are. That is what pure femininity really is - not some perverted thing that makes men act like animals rather than being the men that we truly need them to be. Femininity may be a very bad word in today’s society, “Pure” femininity is something greater than money could ever hope to buy.